Sometimes girls crave for a fairytale ending.. well thats exactly what guys should understand.. i dunno why guys cant be more sensitive towards the girls' feelings ya.. for me, guys should always make the first move.. coz guys are meant to do that..hehe.. in some cases, i also believe that there's no wrong for girls to make the first move.. but it will be more special when guys express their feelings towards the girls first, rather than wait for the girl.. i think its juz not man enough when the guy waits for the girl..
since tomoro will be the valentine's day that everyone was talking about, lets discuss about it.. haha.. so do u know where the word "
Valentine" came from? it is named after one of the Christian martyrs named Valentine. it is traditionally a day where lovers express their love to each other by presenting flowers, offering confectionery, and sending greeting cards.. hmm thats why from last time when 14 february is coming, everywhere also we can see people selling chocolates, flower shops also always busy..but nowadays i hardly see people really write a love letter for their lovers.. haha.. which can be very special n memorable too, to see that u really spend a time to write, think about the lover, try to express the feelings through the handwritings and the hard work of writing and how to make it special..
btw i only ever get 2 real love letters frm a guy..haha.. and i still keep it until now.. when i read back the letters, its quite cute..hihihi.. but i think the most special and the best way to express the love is not frm a love letter.. must do some actions and talk really face to face then only can make a sweet moment.. body language, face expression are very crucial which we cant see it thru love letters.. cant really prove the love letter is really frm the heart or ask pther ppl to write or juz copy paste frm other sources..haha.. we wont know.. :P
aiyo..if i think again tmr is valentine's day.. so sad cant spend the day with someone tat i love the most.. spend here alone.. haiz.. but this year like not so much valentine's feeling..haha..maybe becoz more ppl talk about the chinese new year which falls on the same date. anyway, any day also can be special if we are willing to put an effort to make it special for the ones we loved.
last year's v day was my best vday ever.. coz i spend together with someone i really love, and he make this for me. so sweet right :)
little candles arranged to make a heart shape.. although this was not entirely his idea, but i was still feel touched.. hehehe.. thx to him, and also my best friend who was helping him to make this sweet little thing. luckily i choose to go out that night, wat if i dun wan to go ya? hehe.. planning is a must to do when u wan to make a surprise.. to make it runs smoothly as u plan before.. i still remember clearly that night after school my friend ask me what if later ur boyfriend make a surprise for u, then i say no he wont, coz i know he also very busy with working for whole day and we also got talked before that we wont celebrate this v day so special coz we think that any day also can make special not only vday..hehe.. its really true.. but sometimes.. girls also will hope that on vday, we will get something special, romantic moments from the lovers.
thats all for this post.. hope everybody happy n can have a good time with ur loved ones.. tomoro will be juz another normal day for me, also my last day of this summer holiday.. huhuhu.. next monday the school wil start, go to classes again.. hopefully next semester will be better than last semester.. i will do more plannings on all my assignments and studies, and try to get better marks.. and the most important thing is i dun wan to do another supplementary exam for accounting next semester.. :)
to graduate sooner ==
Sherly Gunawan
February 2010